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Friday, January 02, 2009


2009年 好事接二连三@11:12 PM



从 2009 年一月一日到现在
环绕着我的是接二连三的喜事
希望这好的开始, 让我整年都顺顺利利
一个周末两个喜宴
明天是表叔结婚的好日子
后天则是中学同学恬慧的喜筵
从部落格也得知也将有几为格友将在2009年共结连理!!!
认识的不认识的。。。看了大家喜滋滋的结婚照。。。
新娘很美。。。照片很有feel
再加上朋友的荼毒真的有一股。。。冲动 哈哈

报章统计的离婚率居高不下,周遭的离婚例子也见怪不怪
原因大多都是早婚, 经济上感情上都没有基础
听到朋友结婚, 一般会有两种反应
替他们高兴;替他们担心
结婚真是一个New chapter
new concept..new formula...new theory

听着新婚朋友的诉讼。。。有点惊
但是却丝毫没动摇我对婚姻的憧憬
毕竟身边携手走过半百的恩爱模范夫妻还是很多
向我和他的父母 好像谈着一辈子的恋爱
而且我的宝贝
真的在婚姻上给了我很多的faith

我一直希望自己有能力照顾身边的每一个人
那种照顾别人的感觉。。。很好
管他们吃的饱吗。。。穿得暖吗。。。
我Motherly的性格。。。 是我的singnature
有时会有点累, 有点不甘愿 不过小小的赞美或一句谢谢
就可以让我再出发

哈哈是不是吓倒你们了?
我只是冲。。。还没动。。。
虽然穿上婚纱的女人真的很美很美
结婚戒指也很美
但要整个婚礼很美
需要好多钱啊

宝贝! 2009 年 我们都要努力哦!

*****
白头偕老
一句再也普通不过的结婚贺词
但是携手走过快乐与艰辛
双方努力的调整步伐
沟通和包容才是关键
新婚的朋友祝你们!

幸福哦!

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Wednesday, December 31, 2008


31.12.2008@8:38 PM

Today is the last day of 2008… like no others I am doing some reflection on what I have accomplished

I just came back from the mall passed by the interchange boys and girls are dressed up heading to city for the New Year countdown party … I am terrified after the last year countdown experience in Marina Bay and I still think is a smart choice to stay at home and spend with my family … ok I am not a party person

My achievement for 2008
- Graduated from my degree (one subject pending but I have a strong faith that I will pass)
- Behave well as a daughter (dad and mum have less worried about me…)
- I love my man whole heartedly
- For my girls I am always there
- Meet good friend in SMa
- I took up prison counselor course
- I do charity work

Happy and sorrow
Tears and laugh
Joy and stress
Believe and relief
Forgive and forget
Made mistakes and learn my lesson
Thanks everyone walked in and passed my life…
Scolded me, praised me, loves me, care for me, and hates me
I appreciated all positive and negative comments and feedback, I am thankful for all the forgiveness and understanding. U people are just awesome !!!

My resolution for 2009
- Secure myself with a challenging job in the economy crisis
- Stay as healthy as possible!!!
- Be a good daughter, gf and sisters

Happy 2009 !!! Hugs and kisses
May everyone blessed with prosper and wonderful years ahead!

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Wednesday, December 03, 2008


两个星期的煎熬@1:13 AM

报告 改改改 赶赶赶
考试 读读读 背背背

终于 都熬过去了
虽然还有我大学生涯最后一个考试
在12号

容许我停下来
喘口气 让思绪沉淀
让自己思考
未来的路 该怎么走

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Thursday, November 20, 2008


长大@9:01 PM

如果你拒绝长大
你永远不会成熟, 也不懂得承受
如果你拒绝长大
你永远没有能力也不会照顾别人
如果你拒绝长大
你无法面对社会压力和可怕的人性

放开依赖和任性
旁边的家人朋友都会支持你
你要勇敢的大步往前走
沿途可能你看不到我们
不要怕 回头看看
你的家人 都在背后挺你
很多事你会觉得不顺利
不用埋怨因为人生本来就该是这样

相信别人, 相信你自己可以

如果你拒绝长大
你 不会长大

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Monday, November 17, 2008


戒指@2:10 PM

去年的情人节
我看中了一枚心形戒指
每次经过都要到橱窗前看看
虽然我喜欢可是并没有立刻买下的冲动
因为觉得戒指 还是要别人送的才有意义

等到deear真的来了新加坡
跑遍了各个分行再也看不到那戒指了
deear也回kl的分行帮我找
得到的结果都一样
那是情人节发行的不会在补货了
我跟自己说如果再让我看到
我一定马上买下
几个月下来我还是没有完全把它忘掉

11月的 某一天
在一间我常经过却不曾进过得手表店里
我跟心形戒指相遇了。。。
我望着戒指 很开心
店员拿出来 让我试戴
我没有戴 只是摸了一下

不是很贵
我还是没买

走在街上我嘴角泛起笑意
以为再也不会看到的东西 既然会出现
不买因为我觉得跟戒指的重逢
带给我比拥有它更大的喜悦

我 知道
我 很奇怪

哈哈

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Sunday, November 16, 2008


毕业在即@9:29 PM

每天翻开报纸
尽是些经济不景股市下点
失业率上升 裁员 等等等
de motivated 的报道

爸爸每天都眉头深锁
一定是生意不好
连Lecturer 都说the market is really bad now
原本对前景乐观的我
开始有点彷徨
担心自己找不到工作

haiz... 我会很努力
我保证

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Saturday, November 08, 2008


眼浅@6:29 PM

不要说我爱哭
我只是眼浅
只是容易被感动

被骂 我哭
委屈 我哭
感动 我哭
伤心 我哭
看戏 我哭
被气 我哭
很烦 我哭

为亲情 我哭
为爱情 我哭
为友情 我哭

我的眼泪不一定是伤心或委屈
很多时候是同情和感动
为了捍卫自己的立场我可以那么坚持
我不会甘心默默接受不公平
我有像斗鸡般的毅力去争取
别人看我会觉得我不好惹
可是身边的朋友和家人都知道
我是只纸老虎

奇怪的处女座

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Wednesday, November 05, 2008


忙忙忙@9:28 AM

这个礼拜都不会update 了
NMT assignment
CCF project
House painting + spring cleaning

我要全力以赴
闭“网”(internet)修炼1星期
有时忍不住我还是会偷偷上来的
haha

Today is America Presidential Election
I believe in CHANGE
I believe in OBAMA

- the black man will ruled the white house

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Saturday, October 25, 2008


Are we Power or powerless???@11:39 PM

This post is gonna be long. It is my observation and reflection of thoughts after new media technologies assignment. It almost made me to stop blogging for a while…

A BIG FACT IS …
WHEN U PUT SOMETHING ONLINE = YOU CHOOSE TO DISCLOSE YOUR PRIVACY

Personal= Privacy NONONO
not longer or is does not apply in cycberspace..

Am I being surveillance? or
Are you watching someone?

Facebook, friendster, google, forum, blog, MSN and the list go on and on… I am sure we are more familiar with all these brand name compare to the communication and sociology theory in books…Online social interaction, search engine, forum, social networking websites, instant message, blog, ebay, iTunes has become a huge part in our lives and how we communicate with one another.

I am absolutely agreed internet serve it purpose to keep people in touch and makes communication easier and faster. Obama used facebook and blog as his primary medium in the US presidential campaign…Malaysia Politic has changes the ways it used to be in the cycberspace… However, I found it not so “cool” now… because it has invaded my privacy, realign my daily routines and somehow we are over reliance or even addicted to this entire phenomenon.

I am a blogger and blogging has become the new way of livelihood for some blogger or even more than that because I am now even blog to earn assignment marks haha. I am not blogging to get the feeling of ‘I am somebody’ in my real life aspects like Miss XxxXxx and Miss DY. I just used it as a platform to express my feeling and opinion. Due to some incident I found it goes against my initial purpose to have a blog. I feel damn TL when can’t write everything I want on my spaces. Just like you park your car in your own parking lot and you got summon.

Blogger does not need use perfect English
Blogger does not need to specify every single detail
Blogger do not have the right to control reader imagination
Blogger hate reader that 对号入座

sorry this post is not organize at all, i have too much theory and obeservation to share because this related to my module so much... and i just need to tell this fact now after reading my friend blog...


no point u want to control how ppl write
because u cant control their mind...

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Wednesday, September 10, 2008


大学生。。。@11:01 PM

3个月
3个unit
3个考试

6个assignment
几百篇的reading
我就毕业了。。。
希望一切顺利

爸爸常说马路上满街都是大学生
很快我也将成为其中一个
不知道那时候的心情会是怎样

其实很多企业的上司
对现今大学生还真的不敢恭维
选工计较不说
不能OT
最重要是没责任感。。。
朝九晚五的工作已经不复存在了

不敢说我自己与众不同
但至少
我有责任感
我想要学习
我不怕OT
我吃的起苦

我跟typical大学生不同 。。。
至少我以前的上司跟我说过那么一句话
young lady, you have changed my perception towards graduates nowadays...
i see hope in you...is your attitude make you different...

ken ...i will keep this in my heart forever...
it really motivated me

(不是炫耀我很厉害可是,我真的听过太多对于大学生的负面新闻了)下次再update


真希望一毕业就能找到一份好工作。。。
加油!熬过这三个月再来烦吧

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Friday, July 18, 2008


YBF@10:31 PM

I

Miss

Young

Buddhist

Fellowship

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Sunday, June 22, 2008


some "bread thought"@9:45 PM

Kids nowadays are really spoiled…or not just kids?

baby born with silver spoon is nothing special…you will always have people ahead of you…gold…platinum or even diamond spoon..name it

When parents have better income they tend to spend more on their children, buy them luxury electronic (HP. Laptop, PSP) product or branded cloths and when more people are doing that… it become a social trend. Parents indulge their kids with whatsoever is in trend so children in this day and age become more demanding, never satisfied and take things for granted. Who to blame? I really dunno…

I just have a little story to share here, which I bring up to my mind…
I am truly blessed more than enough.

I was buying breakfast in breadtalk
A mother and her boy were there before I walk in…
I overheard their conversation

Mum: 快点你要哪一个面包?
Boy:我要香肠的
Mum: 不要吃香肠啦。。。$1.40可以买比较大一点的
Boy:哦
*** mum looking at loft bread and ask the cashier how much. Cashier replied: $4.8
*** she decided to buy and take it with her son bread proceed to payment, she gave her son $4 to make the payment

Cashier : 谢谢 $ 5.8
Mum: 为什么那么贵?$1.8+ $1 那里是5.8
Cashier: 是4.8+1.
Mum:你刚才讲1.8 的
Cashier:我说4.8
Mum:我以为是1.8 。那我现在不要了可以吗?
Cashier: 不可以,你把面包夹扁了
Mum: 那里有,我不要了。我买一个就好了

*** She pay and left the shop and I heard she says 吓死人这样贵

This episode keeps on repeating in my mind until today.
How fortunes are we? How can i ask for more when i leading such a good life.
I might not get everything i want...but i really cant ask for more at this stage...
I feel like paying for her at that moment but in other way I felt she might felt more embarrass to accept my kindness.
We have a tendency to mix up the needs and wants in our life when the standard of living are getting higher each day.

maybe i should start think how can i avoid to falling in this dilemma...

the greatest gift is to GIVE

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Thursday, May 15, 2008


小爱大爱@11:29 PM

不分种族,宗教,国籍
撇开政治
中国和台湾的两岸关系
中国和日本世界大战的仇恨
满满的援助,来自世界各个角落

灾区里喜忧参半
爸爸妈妈抱着孩子冰冷尸体痛苦
废墟中传来的生命迹象成功欢呼
冰冷的电视传来的竟是那么震撼的画面

死亡数目不断攀升
那些不是数字
是人命。。。
生命真的很脆弱
活着的你们都要加油哦!

期盼奇迹。。。

SADHU! SADHU! SADHU!

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008


地球在咆哮@11:17 PM

缅甸风灾赈灾工作迟迟没有进展
从报章新闻看到的是一个人间地狱
彷徨,饥饿,无助
还有对政府的愤怒
当世界把焦点放在缅甸
中国四川发生了严重地震

1000 多次的余震
15000个人丧命
地震能量约四十颗原子弹
道路寸断 救援工作难以展开
电视上的画面让我回想起大海啸
解放军日以继夜的搜寻
可惜大雨不断影响了工作
灾区有很多学校,好多小孩被活埋
父母焦心如焚的等待。。。
祈祷看见他们的娃儿的消息

相比之下缅甸人民在这场灾难中得靠自己
中国总理温家宝第一时间赶到四川灾场
含着眼泪指挥行动,他的誓言感动全世界
“只要有一线希望,就要尽百倍力量救人。我要人民脱险”
他的行动深深的鼓励每个灾民,军人, 医护人员
当然还有我。。。
(多么希望我国领导有他100分之1的魄力和危机意识)

地震至今已经快到72小时
远在这里的我们依然过着安逸的生活
山区交通工具不足
他们没有水没有电没有食物
可想而知他们连最基本的生存条件都没有
各大报章和NGO已经发起捐款
希望大家有钱出钱,有力出力
虽然我们不能抚平他们失去亲人家园的伤痛
但至少让他们有机会活下去

为他们祈祷,回响,颂经
do whatever best we can...
they can feel it...
u even feel better...

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心情的记录。
成长的见证。
真心的分享。
没有压力,写我思。写我想
体重永远是我最大的尅星但其实我也不太在意
家人和朋友是我最大的依靠但其实我想他们依靠我
希望生活里的每一个角色
我都可以做的最好

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